![]() 06/03/2018 at 04:15 • Filed to: None | ![]() | ![]() |
So, uh, yeah. For those of you who don’t know, which is probably most of you, I don’t like to identify as male. I’m not sure if I’m ever going to transition, but I know that I would be much more comfortable in my own skin had I been born female. I’m lucky that, unlike some trans people, I’m kind of apathetic about the whole thing. I don’t mind if people refer to me as he or him, when they don’t know better. But yeah, for all intents and purposes, I’m a pre-HRT, gay trans woman and this is my coming out post for Oppo.
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I love the sheer diversity and welcome-ness of oppo. I’m sure this post took some courage, congrats!!
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Good on you, and you’re still very welcome regardless of who you identify as :)
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woah you have a whole month dedicated to the kia pride? i love it
i kid.... that took some courage.. wishing you all the best and if you ever need an ear (one that makes inapropriate jokes at the worst times) im here
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you will always have our support
![]() 06/03/2018 at 05:10 |
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Awesome, I’m happy that this tiny little car forum makes you feel safe and happy enough to open up about this. Good luck!
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Ya know, this reminds me.... It’s been a while since we’ve had a CAH game on oppo. We should do one of those again soon.
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Nice one mate.
We’re all here for you.
All the best.
![]() 06/03/2018 at 07:10 |
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Heck yeah!!! <3 Yay!!!!!! You’re so very awesome, Rainbow. <3
I remember you mentioning your apathy towards transition some time long ago. If that ever changes and you want some help getting HRT, someone to talk to, or really anything at all, drop me a line at:
779-244-9109
Or
the_smart_car@yahoo.com
(I dox my contact methods, don’t worry; I don’t care.)
And don’t let anyone stop you from being you, you rock! <3
Side-note: Oppo is one of the few car communities where one could could be a cis woman or trans and you’ll be loved all the same by most of the members. Thank you all for that. :3
![]() 06/03/2018 at 07:16 |
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Kudos for the courage friend! All are welcome on Oppo! :)
Here, have a stereotypical FIAT 500 scene! :D
![]() 06/03/2018 at 07:22 |
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Welcome - no signs on the bathrooms here.
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Yeah those were fun
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As long as you’re happy with yourself, it shouldn’t matter to anyone about the rest. Glad this is a place you’re comfortable and supported!
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You have my welcome as you are.
And many other people in North Carolina are supportive, despite the general perception of others.
![]() 06/03/2018 at 08:57 |
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Congratulations on coming out! I know I wish I had come out about ten years earlier than I did. I hope you have lots of love and support from your friends and family along the way.
This has always been the most welcoming and accepting car forum. I’ve been to some pretty bad ones. I think I’ve had one loser burner here give me an anti-gay comment somewhere, and it was dealt with immediately by a mod. That’s in over ten years of being a part of this community.
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Best part of Oppo is that everyone here is from all different backgrounds and no matter what, we still love each other.
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The fact that Oppo doesn’t give so much as a kiss arse to who you are no matter who you are is exactly how a place in the real world should be. The fact that you humaned up to that idea right about here makes it a pretty special place all round. But I still don’t give a shit what you want to call yourself...Oppo is fine.
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Yep, this.
![]() 06/04/2018 at 00:07 |
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I haven’t been on Oppo long but one of the things I’ve liked most about it is how welcoming everyone seems to be. Glad to see it’s more than just appearances. And thanks for letting me know your pronouns.
Hope you’re enjoying Ireland! I was only in Ireland proper for a few days but I had a great time.
![]() 06/04/2018 at 09:25 |
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Gotta love Oppo, everyones welcome here!